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Marginal Gains's avatar

Another excellent post!

As with most societal trends, the causes are likely multifaceted, and I believe this situation is no exception. Here are a few observations:

First, I wonder how these behavioral patterns evolve as teens transition to college and begin living more independently. The role of parents in shaping these habits also seems significant as more and more parents are involved in their children’s lives. While increased parental involvement has benefits, it may also prevent kids from developing resilience through failure and mistakes—an essential part of growing up. Jean M. Twenge captures this well in her observation:

“Childhood has lengthened, with teens treated more like children, less independent and more protected by parents than they once were. The entire developmental trajectory, from childhood to adolescence to adulthood, has slowed. Adolescence—the time when teens begin to do things adults do—now happens later. Thirteen-year-olds—and even 18-year-olds—are less likely to act like adults and spend their time like adults. They are more likely, instead, to act like children—not by being immature, necessarily, but by postponing the usual activities of adults.”

This prolonged period of dependence may explain why teens seek alternative forms of autonomy and escapism in the digital world. However, this dependency might carry over into college life, where I’ve heard firsthand accounts of students turning to ADHD medications (even WSJ had an article about young bankers taking ADHD medication recently - https://tinyurl.com/3ucpk2wx) as a way to stay focused. Many of these students don’t have ADHD but feel pressured to perform in demanding academic environments. This raises concerns about whether we are inadvertently fostering a culture reliant on external aids—whether chemical or digital—for productivity and focus.

Additionally, we also need to explore further the growing mental health challenges tied to technology use, particularly loneliness. I believe loneliness deserves deeper exploration, as it may have even more long-term consequences than drugs. While substance abuse often has an endpoint through treatment or recovery, loneliness, especially in a world where face-to-face interactions are becoming rare, can persist indefinitely. This makes creating physical and virtual spaces that encourage genuine, meaningful connections all the more important.

Finally, it’s worth emphasizing the role of schools and colleges in teaching academic fundamentals and interpersonal skills. After-hours interactions, such as social events or collaborative activities, are critical for developing well-rounded individuals. As you mentioned, replicating these dynamics in the digital world remains a significant challenge. While digital spaces offer convenience and accessibility, they often lack the depth and richness of in-person interactions, vital for building empathy, trust, and social resilience.

In conclusion, while the decline in teen drug use is undoubtedly a positive development, it’s essential to examine what dependencies are replacing these vices. Are we equipping teens with the tools to navigate the digital and physical worlds healthily, or are we inadvertently creating new challenges? Your post effectively raises these questions, and I hope more discussions will follow on fostering balanced, mindful engagement with technology while preserving the benefits of real-world interactions.

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Tanner Harms's avatar

Interesting essay. I sense that smartphone/social media consumption will be added to the list of addictions separating classes in America. Wealthier families are aware of the detriments and have the capacity to prevent them in their children’s upbringing. Kids at the other end of the spectrum will not be so lucky, and will be caught in the typhoon of distraction.

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